Are You Afraid Of Asking For Help?

April 7th, 2010 by Lior Shamir

I used to be.

I couldn’t handle the rejection.

And worse, help in the form of critical – sometimes brutal – feedback on my music would leave me licking my wounds for days.

You see, it takes a lot of courage to ask for help and welcome criticism as well as praise.

And this is the mark of an independent artist and entrepreneur that music fans and professionals want to listen to and associate with.

Don’t Be Afraid To Ask For Help

Professional songwriters, label executives, music supervisors, venue promoters, and die-hard music fans are all around you.  Take a big breath, approach them, ask a question, and even offer to play them a few seconds of your song.  Do this at every opportunity…

…You’ll be surprised how easily you shed your fear of dismissal.

And though you may not always like what they have to say, their willingness to help you – listen and share their thoughts with you – may drive your career to new heights.

Not everyone will be willing to help you.  But don’t let that put you off.

If you learn to ask for help and be open to receiving it in any form, you will discover that most people will go out of their way for you.  That’s a promise.

I hope this helps.


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3 Comments

  1. Jeff Shattuck Says:

    Great advice, equally important though is to ask yourself if you’re willing to make changes based on the feedback! Seems obvious (why else would you be asking for help?), but, in my opinion, many people take the good feedback and throw away the bad, because they don’t want to face the daunting taks of starting over. My advice (which I don’t always take, by the way): ask for feedback on rough demos, and only start the real work, once you’re sure you’ve got something that’s potentially great.

    jeff
    http://www.cerebellumblues.com

    Omri Reply:

    Very smart add to this blog. I’m with you.

    http://www.mindlessechoes.com

  2. Omri Says:

    Great advice. I agree with every word, to get critique on your art is the hardest thing to do, it has a feeling of being so personal, although it’s not the case.

    http://www.mindlessechoes.com